The making of heterosexuals

The way the western society inculcates a strong hatred for one's own sexuality for men, which is a universal and constant male quality, is by basing one's personal sense of manhood on 'heterosexuality,' rather exclusive heterosexuality, through a complex set of visible and invisible psycho-social mechanisms that condition, train and pressurise males right from their forming years of manhood and sexuality. Once, one's personal sense of manhood is firmly based on being free of sexual need for men, it makes sure that the man would himself, even when no one else is looking, fight till death his own sexuality for men. Condemning those in others is only a way to reinforce this fight, which tends to weaken by those who openly accept it.

The more the desire for men, the greater the need to fight and reinforcements through public condemnations.

... and the invention of the concept of 'homosexuality' (that actually is about a third gender's sexuality for men) and creation of the separate category of 'homosexuals' based on the erstwhile third genders, serves perfectly well to reinforce the lie that desiring men is an unmanly trait. That is what the politics of male gender and sexuality is all about.

And that is what is the essence of conspiracy against men. Deep rooted behind this conspiracy is the age-old greed for more and more population, in order to compete with the other 'tribes' and the fear -- not totally baseless --that if men are allowed to be sexual with other men, few would like to go to women so regularly. And if they start forming committed bonds, it would be impossible to sustain the 'marriage' institution.

What we need to do as a society is to come out of this fear psychosis, because, we don't need all that population anymore, and its time to liberate men from the burden of compulsory procreation in order to prove they're men, because it doesn't prove anything.

As long as men are bound in the heterosexual identity, where manhood is defined as 'heterosexuality' itself, and the third genders keep defining themselves as 'men who like men' this seems impossible to attain.